First, since there seems to be so many of you grammar and spelling perfectionist’s out there, if this is you, do not go any further. I am not one of you! I do the best I can to type out what I do in the amount of time I have. I never claimed to be perfect and if spell check does not catch it, Oh the freaking heck well! If it bothers you that much, move on and stop writing me about it. It wont change!
Second:
Jon and Kate Plus 8. I am really really sick of hearing ‘Oh poor Jon and Kate” I reported on matters with this family long before it all imploded. I am very sorry for the children. They are innocent! They were not asked to be born, not asked to be on tv, not asked to watch mommy turn into the an evil, greedy witch who’s world revolves around freebies, tanning, Starbucks and all the money she can get. Every child deserves loving parents who want to just be that..parents. Making the tough decisions, being their for them 24/7, and showing them how to be responsible adults and great parents in the future themselves. Someone wrote me today about if I had 8 kids, I’d be lucky to have half of them turn out as well as the Gosselins? You are right, if I had 8 kids, I’d be very lucky. Very Blessed!! I 100% believe children are the inheritance from the Lord and are a Blessing. I thank God everyday for being chosen to be my little girls mommy! It’s a roll I take very seriously. I watched other parents, read books, took classes before she was born, because she deserves that. I am not perfect, some days I blow it. No one can question my dedication to my daughter! No one can question at my heart am I trying to do right by her. Kate can not say that. There are too many instances where she chose to make it all about Kate and do what was best for Kate and not what is in the best interest of her children! I personally hope, if it comes to divorce, that Jon gets full custody of the children. I think this is the only way these kids are going to heal from the damage done by these choices. Jon has sense enough to see this show is not healthy for the children. Kate doesn’t want to let go of the fame and freebies. The women is willingly choosing for these innocent lives to be exploited all in the name of money, freebies, free clothes, trips and whatever else she can milk out of this. Do you really think any of these children are going to grow up, look back at this time and thank her for this? Do you really think any of them are going to say, yes, losing my family and our childhood was worth the free trip to Disney, the free clothes, the big house?? I believe those children would much rather have a mommy and daddy who love each other and raising them together in a small house, without all the freebies and money. These kids are NOT mentally healthy! I’m sorry, any child psychologist can see problems and it is 100% Kate and Jon’s fault. Jon is their father and should have put an end to this along time ago and if Kate would not, he should have done ANYTHING in his power to make it happen. All the children have emotional scares from what they have witnessed. It is a proven fact how children are raised..is what they become. If they come from divorced parents, they are more than likely to get divorced themselves. Little girls look to find boyfriends and husbands who are just like their daddy and how daddy was and treated mommy. Little boys look for women who are just like their mommy’s….this is not going to just stop with Jon and Kate. If someone does NOT get in here and stop the madness, these children are going to be scared for life and start a downward spiral that will last for generations. Until someone can say “Enough” and get the help needed and do the work needed to end it. I wish it would be Jon and Kate but as things stand right now, Kate especially is only thinking of what she wants.
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Stop sending me the stupid posts that I’m sending women’s rights back 100 years! SERIOUSLY!! I am a Christian! I 100% believe all that is in the Bible. I take God’s stance on marriage very seriously and believe those guidelines are their for a reason. God created man, so I’m pretty sure He above all know’s how a man works same with women. Yes I believe women need to encourage and exhort our husbands. I believe it because God commands us to do it. I try to have the same reverence, love and devotion for my husband as I do God. My relationship with God is to mimic that of my husband and vice versa. There is nothing NOTHING wrong with this. Submission does not mean my husband is running around with a bull whip commanding me what to do! That is not God’s design for it either. I do believe there are men out there who take that vs in the Bible and abuse it! That is on them, it’s sin and literally GOD HELP them!!
Men are to be the leader of the homes. Men are naturally like cave man, protect family, wife, kill food, provide..that is a man’s heart. Over time…the world has tried to make a metrosexual man. SCREW THAT! I’d much rather have my man’s man, who I know would put someone through a wall that was trying to harm me or our child and rest in that, than my man saying he needs a pedicure and broke his nail. I stay home because I know my husband is going to provide for me and I do not want anyone else raising my daughter. It’s my job, not the daycares or babysitters..mine! I know not everyone has this luxury but we sacrifice to make it happen! The ones of you screaming I’m putting women’s lib back also need to realize that God commands the husband to die to their wives as Christ died for the church. For those of you who do not know, the church reference is not God saying oh Jesus died for the building..NO! The church is all the billions of people one earth..we are the church! Jesus loved us all so much, He gave His life so we may live!! That is what God asks husbands to do for their wives..die to themselves, die to their selfiness, die to their greed, die to their desires…put your wife first..your family first. When this plan is in motion…the husband allowing her husband to lead, provide, and the husband is dying to his selfish desires and needs and loving his wife and family..THIS is what God designed for marriage and it works!! Everyone has someone looking out for them and what is best for all!!?? So stop telling me I have personally put women’s lib back a billion years. We can still vote, we can still hold jobs and we can still wear pants..so SHUSH UP about it already!!
I don’t believe in abortion, I don’t believe in Gay marriage or Gay rights, I don’t believe in divorce except in the matter of adultery which even the Bible allows for and EVEN THEN..I think it and KNOW it can be worked out!!! AND I AM PROUD OF IT!!
